18+ Happiness Is My Choice Quotes. Nothing will make you happy until you choose to be happy. It is not something to be achieved, it is something to be experienced. It is a choice not a condition or destination. Your happiness will not come to you. So please, stop telling me happiness is is a choice when it isn't, when the only choice i can make is whether or not i keep going. Happiness is a choice and a skill and you can dedicate yourself. If others don't like it, then let them be. Life is some days a bed of thorns, a puddle of mud, a pothole on a highway and it might deny you happiness but life is going to respond to your attitude and happiness is always a choice. Life isn't about pleasing everybody. Happiness is a choice, not a result.